2011年9月3日 星期六

不受干擾

Synonyms: tact, address, diplomacy, savoir-faire
These nouns denote the ability to deal with others with skill, sensitivity, and finesse. Tact implies propriety and the ability to speak or act unoffensively: "He had . . . a tact that would preserve him from flagrant error in any society" (Francis Parkman).
Address suggests deftness and grace in social situations: "With the charms of beauty she combined the address of an accomplished intriguer" (Charles Merivale).
Diplomacy implies adroit management of difficult situations: Diffusing the confrontation required delicate diplomacy.
Savoir-faire involves knowing the right or graceful thing to say or do: The hosts set the shy visitor at ease with their savoir-faire.


我認為,自己努力並且真的有做到的是tact。
我所面對的一切情況都是自己選擇的:我自己要的。我的力量集中在要到自己想要的東西,跟自己想要的東西無關的一切,想辦法過關就好,過關的意思就是渡過,因為與我的核心無關,所以渡過就好;覺得被冒犯、受到騷擾,就違背了我要得到我想要的的原則。

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